Monday, December 10, 2007

Close to Home

Every day I turn on the news and see stories of how promising young Black males end up died. This story is even more troubling because at one time I shared a relationship with this individual – Lavonda “B.J.” Franklin Jr. I want to be clear, we weren’t particularly close, and I haven’t seen or talked with him in at least five years, but nevertheless our families are close and we grew up together, played together, and at one time, my little brother and I admired his basketball play.

B.J. was seven years younger than me, but for a time we played basketball together when he was in elementary school. His dad and my uncle were on the same industrial league basketball team and we’d both be at the practices and games. We’d shoot around and he’d always talk about how he wanted to play basketball like his dad.

Eventually, B.J. grew up and arguably played better basketball than his dad. He was a three year starter at point guard for Salem High and in 2003; he became the Seminoles’ all-time leader in points and assist. Additionally B.J. was a three year starter on the baseball team at shortstop, and he led the team in hits, total bases, and stolen bases and tied for team lead in runs and doubles. In 2003, the Rockdale Citizen newspaper named B.J. the Citizen’s 2003 Athlete of Year at Salem High School.

In November 2007, B.J. was killed during an alleged altercation with a Rockdale County deputy. According to the sheriff’s department, B.J. was pulled over at approximately 4 a.m. After noticing drug “contraband” in the car, the deputy attempted to arrest B.J., but B.J. allegedly resisted and two began to struggle.

B.J. allegedly jumped back into his car and tried to drive off as the sheriff attempted to hold on to him. The deputy was allegedly dragged 800 feet before he drew his weapon and fired into the vehicle, which then crashed into a brick mailbox. B.J. died at the scene.

Regardless of the truth of any of the facts, I hate to see any individual with so much talent end up dead at the age of 22. B.J. always had a smile on his face when I last saw him; he was refereeing and coaching little league basketball. He often joked with children and provided tips on their games.

My prayers are with his family.

1 comment:

christopher ryan cook said...

b.j.'s death inspired me to learn as much as possible about drug prohibition. the u.s.a. drug war destroys and had destroyed a lot of lives. all these destroyed lives are unnecessary. thanks for creating this website.I graduated high school with him, played sports with him. attended his funeral. he was an awesome person. gone too soon. he will be missed. he lives in our memories. he will never be forgotten by his friends and family.